Why divergent thinkers can’t help but do something
Life is hardly ever wasted. It can be under-appreciated; you can miss the joy and beauty and wonder of it all, and some might call that a waste. But if you pay attention, if you…
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You are perfect as you are, and only getting better
The good thing about Monday mornings is reading an email from Mark Manson. Today, he made mention about how life will always have a tension between being perfect as you are right now, and the…
impact is not the same as contribution
the ocean has impact; a starfish has contribution. we need your contribution regardless of the scale of impact. …
treat your body like you treat your lover
happy new year i wanted to write a new year’s post about goal setting, and that got me onto the subject of living a deliberate life, and that made the think about the support systems…
what coffee in a whiskey cup taught me about practicing maintenance
there’s nothing i love more than coffee and i have three kids. but if you have kids, you probably love coffee as much as i do. anyway, this post isn’t about coffee, it’s about the…
planning for freedom
why am i even doing this? have you ever wanted to do something, so you decide you’re going to do it, and then the moment you commit to doing it, you lose interest?me. that’s me.…
gratitude is good, appreciation is gooder
thanksgivingah, man, thanksgiving. i like it. i do. i like having both mashed potatoes and stuffing on my plate. i like the gravy, i like the rolls. and it’s nice to see family members, i…
Submitting to the Will of The Farther
If you’ve read anything I’ve written, you’ve probably noticed I’m not a fan of religion. But I just ran across a story that reminded me of what I hate about religion, and it also…
is your marriage freeing or suffocating?
you know how Hallmark movies are all the same? it doesn’t need to be that way in real life. you see, when people in their 20’s get married, they barely know themselves. but sometimes this…
Actualization: a path found by not seeking
Chances are, you’ve heard of Abraham Maslow, and if you don’t recall hearing about him, you’ve probably at least heard of his Hierarchy of Needs. If you haven’t, let me briefly introduce you – everybody…